When I was a teenager, I hung on my wall a banner that read..."You cannot be found, if you were never lost." I had forgotten all about this until I started digging through some old memory books over the holidays.
Although, at the time I thought I was that person...the one that was never lost. In triumph I hung the words over my bed as a daily remember of how not lost I was.
But in fact, I was lost...and wouldn't find my self for decades.